Comments on: Mentoring http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2012/05/30/mentoring/ Frank commentary from a retired call girl Mon, 20 May 2013 19:36:37 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: BrookeinVegas http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2012/05/30/mentoring/#comment-45771 Sun, 13 Jan 2013 00:07:08 +0000 http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/?p=11194#comment-45771 I know this is an old thread but I imagine your Q & A is popular. I doubt there are any escorts who have never been physically repulsed by a client. For me there wasn’t much I couldn’t get past physically but I did have the occasional client who had poor hygiene. These men appeared clean everywhere but their genitals. As luck would have it, they always wanted oral sex to completion. Most escorts would have no problem telling them to wash their junk but I am not one of those people. I one of those “sweet” girls who is almost NEVER rude to anyone. I go out of my way to make sure people feel comfortable-sometimes to the point of resentment. I am also painfully empathetic which is a quality I HATE about myself. To me, telling a man that his package is rank was impolite and would cause him embarrassment. It took performing fellatio on some dirty, smelly cocks before I stood up for myself.

But the reason I am posting a comment is because of situations where clients are the opposite of physically repulsive. I have had clients whose bodies are close to perfection. They have like 3% body fat with sculpted muscles and chiseled abs. There is a scene in a movie where the female character (Emma Stone) is about to have sex with a guy (Ryan Gosling) and when he takes off his shirt his body is so ridiculous she claims he looks photo-shopped. She then says she is too insecure to get naked and have her body next to his. That is how I feel around these clients. I struggled with anorexia as a teen and bulimia in my early twenties so I already have body-image issues. I always feel fat even when I am not because I have huge breasts. I never put too much thought into my issue with super fit men until I realized it was getting in the way of my service to a particular client. He was constantly requesting that I shower with him after sex. I always said no, usually using my long hair as an excuse. This was a twice a week client and I was refusing him something so simple. So he actually brought me a shower cap. Sexy, right? So I finally told him why. I told him I felt unattractive next to him and that his perfect body was also a reminder of how I failed to get to the gym on a regular basis. I didn’t tell him that his body made me so insecure that I would pick the least revealing lingerie for his appointment and I would try to keep as much on as I could get away with. I didn’t tell him that I avoided the missionary position with him because I hated having his 12 pack abs in my face. He was a good sport and took to telling me how beautiful I was constantly (as if that was all I needed to hear) but he never got me in the shower.

]]> By: Laura http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2012/05/30/mentoring/#comment-25173 Sun, 03 Jun 2012 11:20:46 +0000 http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/?p=11194#comment-25173 Above post was to The Real Peterman. I forgot to mention: the movie I posted the link to is about disabled people getting sexual help for free, i.e. from literal “sex volunteers”. Thank God for them!

]]> By: Laura http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2012/05/30/mentoring/#comment-25172 Sun, 03 Jun 2012 11:17:38 +0000 http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/?p=11194#comment-25172 Non-whore women also give this needed service. I’m 1 of them. Disability has never been a negative factor with me as far as helping out sexually goes. Appearance and income amount never have been either. There’s a movie about non-whores who help people out sexually at literally no charge:
http://www.hancinema.net/a-sex-volunteer-open-secret-1st-story-for-the-disabled-in-director-s-debut-23073.html
ALL who help deserve acknowledgement.

]]> By: Maggie McNeill http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2012/05/30/mentoring/#comment-25067 Thu, 31 May 2012 14:37:34 +0000 http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/?p=11194#comment-25067 Thank you, Jen! I’m really glad I could help. :-)

]]> By: comixchik http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2012/05/30/mentoring/#comment-25064 Thu, 31 May 2012 12:28:53 +0000 http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/?p=11194#comment-25064 This is something you won’t hear as part of the popular stereotype- But I was fortunate enough to have a steady group of regular clients, and those were some really fine men. Oh, physically they weren’t all so fit, but I got to know them and began to look beyond that. I still miss them, and getting to know those men was one of the best bits of the business.

]]> By: comixchik http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2012/05/30/mentoring/#comment-25063 Thu, 31 May 2012 12:26:10 +0000 http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/?p=11194#comment-25063 Well, I wouldn’t know ‘Owt about Nowt.”… (Yorkshireism. Over the years, I’ve mostly lost my accent, at least relatives and friends in the UK think so. I lived in Southern California for a while. But thank you.

]]> By: Jen http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2012/05/30/mentoring/#comment-25049 Thu, 31 May 2012 09:21:33 +0000 http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/?p=11194#comment-25049 I must say, that your site has been invaluable to me since I started working as an escort. It provided me with much to think about before I got started and has made it easier for me to enter into in this line of work.

]]> By: Ornithorhynchus http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2012/05/30/mentoring/#comment-25048 Thu, 31 May 2012 06:18:45 +0000 http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/?p=11194#comment-25048 Comixchik–

I LOVE Northern accents. :)
I used to watch Last Of The Summer Wine all the time. Even though most of the early episodes weren’t very funny, I would watch it just to listen to how everyone talked (not just the accents, but the grammar and creative phrasing, too).

]]> By: Sailor Barsoom http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2012/05/30/mentoring/#comment-25045 Thu, 31 May 2012 03:38:24 +0000 http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/?p=11194#comment-25045 “Have fun at the Players’ Ball!”

Well, the A-KON rave… I mean, weekend dance with glowsticks and electronic music which is absolutely not a rave!!

]]> By: gumdeo http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2012/05/30/mentoring/#comment-25040 Thu, 31 May 2012 00:51:43 +0000 http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/?p=11194#comment-25040 The critical clients tend not to have an appreciation of prostitution as a profession, unfortunately.

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