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Archive for September, 2011

Questions are a burden to others; answers a prison for oneself.  -  Sign displayed in an office of “The Village”, from the classic TV series The Prisoner As I stated in my column of September 18th, I sometimes get  replies to my “Black Men” post of a year earlier that demonstrate a total refusal to accept [...]

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A spoonful of sugar helps the medicine go down.  -  The Sherman Brothers In my column of September 18th I related the story of how my 17-year-old self tried to gently explain to a very unattractive young man (whom I called “Ralph”) what he might do to make himself less so; it wasn’t easy because while [...]

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Shiny, shiny, shiny boots of leather Whiplash girlchild in the dark Comes in bells, your servant, don’t forsake him Strike, dear mistress, and cure his heart.  -  Lou Reed, “Venus in Furs” Synchronicity is a strange thing.  Months will pass without news on a particular topic, then all of a sudden there’s an avalanche of [...]

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What I did is not such a great harm, with all these surplus women nowadays.  -  Rudolf Pleil (“The Death Maker”) Though idealists prefer to deny it, Man is a predatory animal in whom the killer instinct is as natural as the sexual impulse.  An infant, given the power to do so, would destroy anyone [...]

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The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don’t have any.  -  Alice Walker In 1970 Carol Hanisch published a second-wave feminist manifesto entitled “The Personal is Political”, and its title soon became a big feminist catchphrase.  The only problem with that is, it’s a load of crap; usually, the [...]

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Nasty Words

Foul words is but foul wind, and foul wind is but foul breath, and foul breath is noisome.  -  William Shakespeare, Much Ado About Nothing (V, ii) One year ago today I published “Pet Peeves”, a column which described five sex-related things that really, really irritate me: 1)  Men yanking the pillow out from under [...]

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Censorship is the strongest drive in human nature; sex is a weak second.  -  Phil Kerby Every year, the last week of September is Banned Books Week, a celebration of intellectual freedom sponsored by the American Library Association.  Since I haven’t actually worked as a librarian since 1995 I have a tendency to forget about [...]

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Mabon 2011

Try to remember the kind of September When life was slow and oh, so mellow. Try to remember the kind of September When grass was green and grain was yellow. Try to remember the kind of September When you were a tender and callow fellow. Try to remember, and if you remember, Then follow.  -  [...]

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As I said in my column on the Ouled Nail, the tribe’s origins are lost to history, but we can be certain their dancers were already entertaining travelers by the time the Arabs appeared in the 7th century CE.  And since the antecedents of the Berbers were painting on the rocks at Tassili some 2000 years [...]

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The right to be respected is won by respecting others.  -  Vasily Sukhomlynsky I never fail to be amazed by the cluelessness of some people.  In this increasingly pluralistic world, increasing numbers understand that it is reprehensible for any group to spread lies about a minority, to dehumanize its members, to represent them as imbeciles [...]

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