Comments on: House Rules http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2011/04/15/house-rules/ Frank commentary from a retired call girl Sat, 18 May 2013 02:16:56 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Shakira http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2011/04/15/house-rules/#comment-14645 Sat, 22 Oct 2011 23:44:35 +0000 http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/?p=3260#comment-14645 Tim,
I don’t believe a word you say about how you seem to think that women should be housewives. I will always have a career, and I will never give it up for any man. I am not going to be dominated over, I want an equal relationship. I am never having children, if you ask how I can possibly achieve this, because I simply have no desire to lose my independence in order to follow society’s expectations. I hate dominating men and all I want is equality and freedom. And don’t say that it makes me any less feminine either.

]]> By: Maggie McNeill http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2011/04/15/house-rules/#comment-9560 Fri, 24 Jun 2011 16:28:28 +0000 http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/?p=3260#comment-9560 Welcome to the site, Kelli; in addition to the epigrams on the daily columns, you can look at my “Quotes” page for a concentrated selection. :-)

]]> By: kelli http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2011/04/15/house-rules/#comment-9555 Fri, 24 Jun 2011 16:02:23 +0000 http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/?p=3260#comment-9555 I actually stumbled onto your site trying to find quotes about courteseans (sp). I am at a kinda wierd place in my life and I have to say that I agree with the power of a woman to make a choice at how she wants to live her life and control her life. I feel that society as a whole is completely tramatized by the thought that a woman my enjoy her sexuality. I never truly did understand why it was so well thought of for a man to be very “experienced” and so looked down upon for a woman to be the same way. I think that there certainly is a difference between love and sex…and if a woman chooses to be a sexual being that is her decision…

]]> By: Jack http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2011/04/15/house-rules/#comment-7736 Tue, 17 May 2011 22:43:24 +0000 http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/?p=3260#comment-7736 Bless you Andrea. I wish more women would understand this aspect of the hobby. Professional women do not represent a threat to their marriage.

I love my wife. I’ve been with her for 35 years and have no desire or plans to ever leave her. I plan to live out my days with her when we retire. I had this very discussion wit my GFE “friend” yesterday. She understands this need and experiences it herself. It’s why she’s so good at what she does….. not just the sex. I think it’s a human need that is scorned by the society that we live in. The experience taught me how to love my wife even more than I already did, how to be more romantic, how to anticipate her needs. It has been “training” in a way that my wife benefits from & she doesn’t even realize. Unfortunately, she will never understand so it is better left unsaid.

]]> By: Andrea http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2011/04/15/house-rules/#comment-7735 Tue, 17 May 2011 22:31:08 +0000 http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/?p=3260#comment-7735 The sex is great, but the closeness, caring, and loving each other for just a few hours at a time has turned me into a more caring man, and a better husband to my wife. It has shown me that the human capacity to love & care is bottomless. I am overjoyed to have found this wonderful experience and expect to continue to grow from it.

This, Jack, is why my husband has a pass. What he does away on conference is up to him. All I know is he comes back a new man. More vital, more focused on me, more caring and confident and just plain terrific. We live in a pretty small town, so I don’t think a weekly GFE would work for him.

God knows I try, but a lot of the shit that goes on at his workplace is just so fucking boring. I get tired of listening to the same shit, year after year. I DO try, but hell, I am eternally grateful to my professional sisters who listen to him and return him to me better than they found him. I’m not threatened by professional girls.

I’m grateful.

]]> By: Jack http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2011/04/15/house-rules/#comment-7732 Tue, 17 May 2011 22:03:13 +0000 http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/?p=3260#comment-7732 Thank you for the welcome Maggie. I will try to contribute often. I am an active hobbyist who travels for work every week. I will try to avoid being too wordy. I have had to write many lengthy technical & proposal summaries over the years for bid responses (I’m in sales) so once I start to write, I tend to go on…and on.

Anyway, I’m a fairly active hobbyist and I do have what I consider strong opinions on both client & provider behaviors I have seen & experienced. I would hope to contribute some of that perspective if it’s valuable. I enjoy discussions about the hobby but unfortunately, it’s not really something I can discuss with my wife.

]]> By: Maggie McNeill http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2011/04/15/house-rules/#comment-7730 Tue, 17 May 2011 21:11:17 +0000 http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/?p=3260#comment-7730 Welcome to the site, Jack! Please contribute often; I really want to see more voices of clients on here, especially since with the rise of the “Swedish Model” y’all are being vilified more than we are nowadays!

]]> By: Jack http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2011/04/15/house-rules/#comment-7729 Tue, 17 May 2011 21:06:31 +0000 http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/?p=3260#comment-7729 Just discovered your blog today while researching the psychology of the girlfriend experience. I had a great laugh at your “I’m a whore” intro at a dinner party. My wife & I have some woman friends (neighbors actually) who did exactly that, but not seriously. We had both of them join us at a little get together at a bar after league bowling one saturday evening. The two women (Linda & Mary) were deeply engaged in conversation with various old friends of ours at the table, when one of the wives asked them what they did for a living. Linda, a diminutive figure, calmly stated while cutting her food with knife & fork that she was a social worker. The questioner then responded, looking at Linda’s friend Mary, and what about you? Without missing a beat and not even looking up from her plate, Linda quickly & quietly responded, “she’s a whore”. The tabel was stunned, my wife & I began to roar in laughter and soon everyone realized it was a joke. To this day (6 years later), we call her “Mary the whore”.

I expect I will enjoy your blog tremendously as I work my way through it in the coming months. You see I am 57 & a new hobbyist who saw my first provider 2 months ago and have seen 12 additional girls since. I did this in search of the girlfriend experience for myself. I finally found that one perfect GFE for me and she has blown me away. The sex with all of the girls was great, but I see my GFE girl every week almost exclusively now and it’s not just for the sex. The sex is great, but the closeness, caring, and loving each other for just a few hours at a time has turned me into a more caring man, and a better husband to my wife. It has shown me that the human capacity to love & care is bottomless. I am overjoyed to have found this wonderful experience and expect to continue to grow from it. It’s sad that American society takes such a puritan view of sex & relationships. I would be shunned for what I do and can never tell any friends or family about it. Yet it feels so right, and so much other good seems to come out in me for having pursued the real GF experience.

Anyway, just my .02, as a retired provider, I thought you should know. I look forward to working my way through your writings.

]]> By: Laura http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2011/04/15/house-rules/#comment-6384 Tue, 19 Apr 2011 20:35:42 +0000 http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/?p=3260#comment-6384 You’re right in that duty isn’t healthy in some cases. It wasn’t in my parents’ case, but that’s another story I won’t get into at this point. I’m convinced, though, that sticking with someone disabled because you want to and want to keep the original commitment can be a wonderful thing. I have a great concern for the disabled because of my Dad plus others I know, have known, etc. In some ways they have harder decisions to make regarding who works, who pays the bills, etc., than 2 able bodied people who are able to work at least most of their lives. With them the decisions can involve more than just which roles they WANT to take. I agree there’s exceptions and, yes, duty isn’t always healthy.

]]> By: Laura http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2011/04/15/house-rules/#comment-6383 Tue, 19 Apr 2011 20:13:26 +0000 http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/?p=3260#comment-6383 Dear Kelly James, your posts are great! Thank you! It’s wonderful you stand up for the polygamy people. I personally would never do polygamy, but these people shouldn’t be persecuted, laughed at, etc. The last US presidential election the man I wanted to vote for talked about visiting polygamy people while campaigning and saying he would work to stop the persecution, improve their legal standing, etc. I was pretty shocked at 1st because this man was/is a Christian preacher. However, like me, he personally isn’t into certain sexual things, but he wants others to have the right to do them. After getting over my shock, this information also confirmed for me I wanted to vote for him. Thanks again for the links and keep up the good work of standing up for polygamy people. Am curious, have you ever watched “Sister Wives”? It’s on either Learning or Discovery channel and is about a polygamous family.

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